Swami Vivekananda completes works
CHAPTER III
THE SECRET OF WORK
Helping others physically, by removing their physical needs, is
indeed great, but the help is great according as the need is greater and
according as the help is far reaching. If a man's wants can be removed for an
hour, it is helping him indeed; if his wants can be removed for a year, it will
be more help to him; but if his wants can be removed for ever, it is surely the
greatest help that can be given him. Spiritual knowledge is the only thing that
can destroy our miseries for ever; any other knowledge satisfies wants only for
a time. It is only with the knowledge of the spirit that the faculty of want is
annihilated for ever; so helping man spiritually is the highest help that can
be given to him. He who gives man spiritual knowledge is the greatest
benefactor of mankind and as such we always find that those were the most
powerful of men who helped man in his spiritual needs, because spirituality is
the true basis of all our activities in life. A spiritually strong and sound
man will be strong in every other respect, if he so wishes. Until there is
spiritual strength in man even physical needs cannot be well satisfied. Next to
spiritual comes intellectual help. The gift of knowledge is a far higher gift
than that of food and clothes; it is even higher than giving life to a man,
because the real life of man consists of knowledge. Ignorance is death,
knowledge is life. Life is of very little value, if it is a life in the dark,
groping through ignorance and misery. Next in order comes, of course, helping a
man physically. Therefore, in considering the question of helping others, we
must always strive not to commit the mistake of thinking that physical help is
the only help that can be given. It is not only the last but the least, because
it cannot bring about permanent satisfaction. The misery that I feel when
I am hungry is satisfied by eating, but hunger returns; my misery can cease
only when I am satisfied beyond all want. Then hunger will not make me
miserable; no distress, no sorrow will be able to move me. So, that help which
tends to make us strong spiritually is the highest, next to it comes
intellectual help, and after that physical help.
The miseries of the world cannot be cured by physical help only.
Until man's nature changes, these physical needs will always arise, and
miseries will always be felt, and no amount of physical help will cure them
completely. The only solution of this problem is to make mankind pure.
Ignorance is the mother of all the evil and all the misery we see. Let men have
light, let them be pure and spiritually strong and educated, then alone will
misery cease in the world, not before. We may convert every house in the
country into a charity asylum, we may fill the land with hospitals, but the
misery of man will still continue to exist until man's character changes.
We read in the Bhagavad-Gita again and again that we must all
work incessantly. All work is by nature composed of good and evil. We cannot do
any work which will not do some good somewhere; there cannot be any work which
will not cause some harm somewhere. Every work must necessarily be a mixture of
good and evil; yet we are commanded to work incessantly. Good and evil will
both have their results, will produce their Karma. Good action will entail upon
us good effect; bad action, bad. But good and bad are both bondages of the
soul. The solution reached in the Gita in regard to this bondage-producing
nature of work is that, if we do not attach ourselves to the work we do, it
will not have any binding effect on our soul. We shall try to understand what
is meant by this “non-attachment to” to work.
This is the one central idea in the Gita: work incessantly, but
be not attached to it. Samskâra can be translated very nearly by
"inherent tendency". Using the simile of a lake for the mind, every
ripple, every wave that rises in the mind, when it subsides, does not die out
entirely, but leaves a mark and a future possibility of that wave coming out
again. This mark, with the possibility of the wave reappearing, is what is
called Samskâra. Every work that we do, every movement of the body, every
thought that we think, leaves such an impression on the mind-stuff, and even
when such impressions are not obvious on the surface, they are sufficiently
strong to work beneath the surface, subconsciously. What we are every moment is
determined by the sum total of these impressions on the mind. What I am just at
this moment is the effect of the sum total of all the impressions of my past
life. This is really what is meant by character; each man's character is
determined by the sum total of these impressions. If good impressions prevail,
the character becomes good; if bad, it becomes bad. If a man continuously hears
bad words, thinks bad thoughts, does bad actions, his mind will be full of bad
impressions; and they will influence his thought and work without his being
conscious of the fact. In fact, these bad impressions are always working, and
their resultant must be evil, and that man will be a bad man; he cannot help it.
The sum total of these impressions in him will create the strong motive power
for doing bad actions. He will be like a machine in the hands of his
impressions, and they will force him to do evil. Similarly, if a man thinks
good thoughts and does good works, the sum total of these impressions will be
good; and they, in a similar manner, will force him to do good even in spite of
himself. When a man has done so much good work and thought so many good
thoughts that there is an irresistible tendency in him to do good in spite of
himself and even if he wishes to do evil, his mind, as the sum total of his
tendencies, will not allow him to do so; the tendencies will turn
him back; he is completely under the influence of the good tendencies.
When such is the case, a man's good character is said to be established.
As the tortoise tucks its feet and head inside the shell, and
you may kill it and break it in pieces, and yet it will not come out, even so
the character of that man who has control over his motives and organs is
unchangeably established. He controls his own inner forces, and nothing can
draw them out against his will. By this continuous reflex of good thoughts,
good impressions moving over the surface of the mind, the tendency for doing
good becomes strong, and as the result we feel able to control the Indriyas
(the sense-organs, the nerve-centres). Thus alone will character be
established, then alone a man gets to truth. Such a man is safe for ever; he
cannot do any evil. You may place him in any company, there will be no danger
for him. There is a still higher state than having this good tendency, and that
is the desire for liberation. You must remember that freedom of the soul is the
goal of all Yogas, and each one equally leads to the same result. By work alone
men may get to where Buddha got largely by meditation or Christ by prayer.
Buddha was a working Jnâni, Christ was a Bhakta, but the same goal was reached
by both of them. The difficulty is here. Liberation means entire freedom —
freedom from the bondage of good, as well as from the bondage of evil. A golden
chain is as much a chain as an iron one. There is a thorn in my finger, and I
use another to take the first one out; and when I have taken it out, I throw
both of them aside; I have no necessity for keeping the second thorn, because
both are thorns after all. So the bad tendencies are to be counteracted by the
good ones, and the bad impressions on the mind should be removed by the fresh
waves of good ones, until all that is evil almost disappears, or is subdued and
held in control in a corner of the mind; but after that, the good
tendencies have also to be conquered. Thus the "attached"
becomes the "unattached". Work, but let not the action or the thought
produce a deep impression on the mind. Let the ripples come and go, let huge
actions proceed from the muscles and the brain, but let them not make any deep
impression on the soul.
How can this be done? We see that the impression of any action,
to which we attach ourselves, remains. I may meet hundreds of persons during
the day, and among them meet also one whom I love; and when I retire at night,
I may try to think of all the faces I saw, but only that face comes before the
mind — the face which I met perhaps only for one minute, and which I loved; all
the others have vanished. My attachment to this particular person caused a
deeper impression on my mind than all the other faces. Physiologically the
impressions have all been the same; every one of the faces that I saw pictured
itself on the retina, and the brain took the pictures in, and yet there was no
similarity of effect upon the mind. Most of the faces, perhaps, were entirely
new faces, about which I had never thought before, but that one face of which I
got only a glimpse found associations inside. Perhaps I had pictured him in my
mind for years, knew hundreds of things about him, and this one new vision of
him awakened hundreds of sleeping memories in my mind; and this one impression
having been repeated perhaps a hundred times more than those of the different
faces together, will produce a great effect on the mind.
Therefore, be "unattached"; let things work; let brain
centres work; work incessantly, but let not a ripple conquer the mind. Work as
if you were a stranger in this land, a sojourner; work incessantly, but do not
bind yourselves; bondage is terrible. This world is not our habitation, it is
only one of the many stages through which we are passing. Remember that great
saying of the Sânkhya, "The whole of nature is for the soul, not the
soul for nature." The very reason of nature's existence is for the
education of the soul; it has no other meaning; it is there because the soul
must have knowledge, and through knowledge free itself. If we remember this
always, we shall never be attached to nature; we shall know that nature is a
book in which we are to read, and that when we have gained the required
knowledge, the book is of no more value to us. Instead of that, however, we are
identifying ourselves with nature; we are thinking that the soul is for nature,
that the spirit is for the flesh, and, as the common saying has it, we think
that man "lives to eat" and not "eats to live". We are
continually making this mistake; we are regarding nature as ourselves and are
becoming attached to it; and as soon as this attachment comes, there is the
deep impression on the soul, which binds us down and makes us work not from
freedom but like slaves.
The whole gist of this teaching is that you should work like
a master and not as a slave; work incessantly, but
do not do slave's work. Do you not see how everybody works? Nobody can be
altogether at rest; ninety-nine per cent of mankind work like slaves, and the
result is misery; it is all selfish work. Work through freedom! Work through
love! The word "love" is very difficult to understand; love never
comes until there is freedom. There is no true love possible in the slave. If
you buy a slave and tie him down in chains and make him work for you, he will
work like a drudge, but there will be no love in him. So when we ourselves work
for the things of the world as slaves, there can be no love in us, and our work
is not true work. This is true of work done for relatives and friends, and is
true of work done for our own selves. Selfish work is slave's work; and here is
a test. Every act of love brings happiness; there is no act of love which does
not bring peace and blessedness as its reaction. Real existence, real
knowledge, and real love are eternally connected with one another, the three in
one: where one of them is, the others also must be; they are the three aspects
of the One without a second — the Existence - Knowledge - Bliss. When that
existence becomes relative, we see it as the world; that knowledge becomes in
its turn modified into the knowledge of the things of the world; and that bliss
forms the foundation of all true love known to the heart of man. Therefore true
love can never react so as to cause pain either to the lover or to the beloved.
Suppose a man loves a woman; he wishes to have her all to himself and feels
extremely jealous about her every movement; he wants her to sit near him, to
stand near him, and to eat and move at his bidding. He is a slave to her and
wishes to have her as his slave. That is not love; it is a kind of morbid
affection of the slave, insinuating itself as love. It cannot be love, because
it is painful; if she does not do what he wants, it brings him pain. With love
there is no painful reaction; love only brings a reaction of bliss; if it does
not, it is not love; it is mistaking something else for love. When you have
succeeded in loving your husband, your wife, your children, the whole world,
the universe, in such a manner that there is no reaction of pain or jealousy,
no selfish feeling, then you are in a fit state to be unattached.
Krishna says, "Look at Me, Arjuna! If I stop from work for
one moment, the whole universe will die. I have nothing to gain from work; I am
the one Lord, but why do I work? Because I love the world." God is
unattached because He loves; that real love makes us unattached. Wherever there
is attachment, the clinging to the things of the world, you must know that it
is all physical attraction between sets of particles of matter — something that
attracts two bodies nearer and nearer all the time and, if they cannot get near
enough, produces pain; but where there is real love, it
does not rest on physical attachment at all. Such lovers may be a thousand
miles away from one another, but their love will be all the same; it does not
die, and will never produce any painful reaction.
To attain this unattachment is almost a life-work, but as soon
as we have reached this point, we have attained the goal of love and become
free; the bondage of nature falls from us, and we see nature as she is; she
forges no more chains for us; we stand entirely free and take not the results
of work into consideration; who then cares for what the results may be?
Do you ask anything from your children in return for what you
have given them? It is your duty to work for them, and there the matter ends.
In whatever you do for a particular person, a city, or a state, assume the same
attitude towards it as you have towards your children — expect nothing in
return. If you can invariably take the position of a giver, in which everything
given by you is a free offering to the world, without any thought of return,
then will your work bring you no attachment. Attachment comes only where we
expect a return.
If working like slaves results in selfishness and attachment,
working as master of our own mind gives rise to the bliss of non-attachment. We
often talk of right and justice, but we find that in the world right and
justice are mere baby's talk. There are two things which guide the conduct of
men: might and mercy. The exercise of might is invariably the exercise of
selfishness. All men and women try to make the most of whatever power or
advantage they have. Mercy is heaven itself; to be good, we have all to be
merciful. Even justice and right should stand on mercy. All thought of
obtaining return for the work we do hinders our spiritual progress; nay, in the
end it brings misery. There is another way in which this idea of mercy and
selfless charity can be put into practice; that is, by looking upon work as
"worship" in case we believe in a Personal God. Here we give up
all the fruits our work unto the Lord, and worshipping Him thus, we have no
right to expect anything from mankind for the work we do. The Lord Himself
works incessantly and is ever without attachment. Just as water cannot wet the
lotus leaf, so work cannot bind the unselfish man by giving rise to attachment
to results. The selfless and unattached man may live in the very heart of a
crowded and sinful city; he will not be touched by sin.
This idea of complete self-sacrifice is illustrated in the
following story: After the battle of Kurukshetra the five Pândava brothers
performed a great sacrifice and made very large gifts to the poor. All people
expressed amazement at the greatness and richness of the sacrifice, and said
that such a sacrifice the world had never seen before. But, after the ceremony,
there came a little mongoose, half of whose body was golden, and the other half
brown; and he began to roll on the floor of the sacrificial hall. He said to
those around, "You are all liars; this is no sacrifice."
"What!" they exclaimed, "you say this is no sacrifice; do you
not know how money and jewels were poured out to the poor and every one became
rich and happy? This was the most wonderful sacrifice any man ever performed."
But the mongoose said, "There was once a little village, and in it there
dwelt a poor Brahmin with his wife, his son, and his son's wife. They were very
poor and lived on small gifts made to them for preaching and teaching. There
came in that land a three years' famine, and the poor Brahmin suffered more
than ever. At last when the family had starved for days, the father brought
home one morning a little barley flour, which he had been fortunate enough to
obtain, and he divided it into four parts, one for each member of the family.
They prepared it for their meal, and just as they were about to eat, there was
a knock at the door. The father opened it, and there stood a guest. Now
in India a guest is a sacred person; he is as a god for the time being,
and must be treated as such. So the poor Brahmin said, 'Come in, sir; you are
welcome,' He set before the guest his own portion of the food, which the guest
quickly ate and said, 'Oh, sir, you have killed me; I have been starving for
ten days, and this little bit has but increased my hunger.' Then the wife said
to her husband, 'Give him my share,' but the husband said, 'Not so.' The wife
however insisted, saying, 'Here is a poor man, and it is our duty as
householders to see that he is fed, and it is my duty as a wife to give him my
portion, seeing that you have no more to offer him.' Then she gave her share to
the guest, which he ate, and said he was still burning with hunger. So the son
said, 'Take my portion also; it is the duty of a son to help his father to
fulfil his obligations.' The guest ate that, but remained still unsatisfied; so
the son's wife gave him her portion also. That was sufficient, and the guest
departed, blessing them. That night those four people died of starvation. A few
granules of that flour had fallen on the floor; and when I rolled my body on
them, half of it became golden, as you see. Since then I have been travelling
all over the world, hoping to find another sacrifice like that, but nowhere
have I found one; nowhere else has the other half of my body been turned into
gold. That is why I say this is no sacrifice."
This idea of charity is going out of India; great men are
becoming fewer and fewer. When I was first learning English, I read an English
story book in which there was a story about a dutiful boy who had gone out to
work and had given some of his money to his old mother, and this was praised in
three or four pages. What was that? No Hindu boy can ever understand the moral
of that story. Now I understand it when I hear the Western idea — every man for
himself. And some men take everything for themselves, and fathers and mothers
and wives and children go to the wall. That should never and nowhere be
the ideal of the householder.
Now you see what Karma-Yoga means; even at the point of death to
help any one, without asking questions. Be cheated millions of times and never
ask a question, and never think of what you are doing. Never vaunt of
your gifts to the poor or expect their gratitude, but rather be grateful to
them for giving you the occasion of practicing charity to them. Thus it is
plain that to be an ideal householder is a much more difficult task than to be
an ideal Sannyasin; the true life of work is indeed as hard as, if not harder
than, the equally true life of renunciation.
CHAPTER III
THE SECRET OF WORK
Helping others physically, by removing their physical needs, is indeed great, but the help is great according as the need is greater and according as the help is far reaching. If a man's wants can be removed for an hour, it is helping him indeed; if his wants can be removed for a year, it will be more help to him; but if his wants can be removed for ever, it is surely the greatest help that can be given him. Spiritual knowledge is the only thing that can destroy our miseries for ever; any other knowledge satisfies wants only for a time. It is only with the knowledge of the spirit that the faculty of want is annihilated for ever; so helping man spiritually is the highest help that can be given to him. He who gives man spiritual knowledge is the greatest benefactor of mankind and as such we always find that those were the most powerful of men who helped man in his spiritual needs, because spirituality is
the true basis of all our activities in life. A spiritually strong and sound
man will be strong in every other respect, if he so wishes. Until there is
spiritual strength in man even physical needs cannot be well satisfied. Next to
spiritual comes intellectual help. The gift of knowledge is a far higher gift
than that of food and clothes; it is even higher than giving life to a man,
because the real life of man consists of knowledge. Ignorance is death,
knowledge is life. Life is of very little value, if it is a life in the dark,
groping through ignorance and misery. Next in order comes, of course, helping a
man physically. Therefore, in considering the question of helping others, we
must always strive not to commit the mistake of thinking that physical help is
the only help that can be given. It is not only the last but the least, because
it cannot bring about permanent satisfaction. The misery that I feel when
I am hungry is satisfied by eating, but hunger returns; my misery can cease
only when I am satisfied beyond all want. Then hunger will not make me
miserable; no distress, no sorrow will be able to move me. So, that help which
tends to make us strong spiritually is the highest, next to it comes
intellectual help, and after that physical help.
The miseries of the world cannot be cured by physical help only.
Until man's nature changes, these physical needs will always arise, and
miseries will always be felt, and no amount of physical help will cure them
completely. The only solution of this problem is to make mankind pure.
Ignorance is the mother of all the evil and all the misery we see. Let men have
light, let them be pure and spiritually strong and educated, then alone will
misery cease in the world, not before. We may convert every house in the
country into a charity asylum, we may fill the land with hospitals, but the
misery of man will still continue to exist until man's character changes.
We read in the Bhagavad-Gita again and again that we must all
work incessantly. All work is by nature composed of good and evil. We cannot do
any work which will not do some good somewhere; there cannot be any work which
will not cause some harm somewhere. Every work must necessarily be a mixture of
good and evil; yet we are commanded to work incessantly. Good and evil will
both have their results, will produce their Karma. Good action will entail upon
us good effect; bad action, bad. But good and bad are both bondages of the
soul. The solution reached in the Gita in regard to this bondage-producing
nature of work is that, if we do not attach ourselves to the work we do, it
will not have any binding effect on our soul. We shall try to understand what
is meant by this “non-attachment to” to work.
This is the one central idea in the Gita: work incessantly, but
be not attached to it. Samskâra can be translated very nearly by
"inherent tendency". Using the simile of a lake for the mind, every
ripple, every wave that rises in the mind, when it subsides, does not die out
entirely, but leaves a mark and a future possibility of that wave coming out
again. This mark, with the possibility of the wave reappearing, is what is
called Samskâra. Every work that we do, every movement of the body, every
thought that we think, leaves such an impression on the mind-stuff, and even
when such impressions are not obvious on the surface, they are sufficiently
strong to work beneath the surface, subconsciously. What we are every moment is
determined by the sum total of these impressions on the mind. What I am just at
this moment is the effect of the sum total of all the impressions of my past
life. This is really what is meant by character; each man's character is
determined by the sum total of these impressions. If good impressions prevail,
the character becomes good; if bad, it becomes bad. If a man continuously hears
bad words, thinks bad thoughts, does bad actions, his mind will be full of bad
impressions; and they will influence his thought and work without his being
conscious of the fact. In fact, these bad impressions are always working, and
their resultant must be evil, and that man will be a bad man; he cannot help it.
The sum total of these impressions in him will create the strong motive power
for doing bad actions. He will be like a machine in the hands of his
impressions, and they will force him to do evil. Similarly, if a man thinks
good thoughts and does good works, the sum total of these impressions will be
good; and they, in a similar manner, will force him to do good even in spite of
himself. When a man has done so much good work and thought so many good
thoughts that there is an irresistible tendency in him to do good in spite of
himself and even if he wishes to do evil, his mind, as the sum total of his
tendencies, will not allow him to do so; the tendencies will turn
him back; he is completely under the influence of the good tendencies.
When such is the case, a man's good character is said to be established.
As the tortoise tucks its feet and head inside the shell, and
you may kill it and break it in pieces, and yet it will not come out, even so
the character of that man who has control over his motives and organs is
unchangeably established. He controls his own inner forces, and nothing can
draw them out against his will. By this continuous reflex of good thoughts,
good impressions moving over the surface of the mind, the tendency for doing
good becomes strong, and as the result we feel able to control the Indriyas
(the sense-organs, the nerve-centres). Thus alone will character be
established, then alone a man gets to truth. Such a man is safe for ever; he
cannot do any evil. You may place him in any company, there will be no danger
for him. There is a still higher state than having this good tendency, and that
is the desire for liberation. You must remember that freedom of the soul is the
goal of all Yogas, and each one equally leads to the same result. By work alone
men may get to where Buddha got largely by meditation or Christ by prayer.
Buddha was a working Jnâni, Christ was a Bhakta, but the same goal was reached
by both of them. The difficulty is here. Liberation means entire freedom —
freedom from the bondage of good, as well as from the bondage of evil. A golden
chain is as much a chain as an iron one. There is a thorn in my finger, and I
use another to take the first one out; and when I have taken it out, I throw
both of them aside; I have no necessity for keeping the second thorn, because
both are thorns after all. So the bad tendencies are to be counteracted by the
good ones, and the bad impressions on the mind should be removed by the fresh
waves of good ones, until all that is evil almost disappears, or is subdued and
held in control in a corner of the mind; but after that, the good
tendencies have also to be conquered. Thus the "attached"
becomes the "unattached". Work, but let not the action or the thought
produce a deep impression on the mind. Let the ripples come and go, let huge
actions proceed from the muscles and the brain, but let them not make any deep
impression on the soul.
How can this be done? We see that the impression of any action,
to which we attach ourselves, remains. I may meet hundreds of persons during
the day, and among them meet also one whom I love; and when I retire at night,
I may try to think of all the faces I saw, but only that face comes before the
mind — the face which I met perhaps only for one minute, and which I loved; all
the others have vanished. My attachment to this particular person caused a
deeper impression on my mind than all the other faces. Physiologically the
impressions have all been the same; every one of the faces that I saw pictured
itself on the retina, and the brain took the pictures in, and yet there was no
similarity of effect upon the mind. Most of the faces, perhaps, were entirely
new faces, about which I had never thought before, but that one face of which I
got only a glimpse found associations inside. Perhaps I had pictured him in my
mind for years, knew hundreds of things about him, and this one new vision of
him awakened hundreds of sleeping memories in my mind; and this one impression
having been repeated perhaps a hundred times more than those of the different
faces together, will produce a great effect on the mind.
Therefore, be "unattached"; let things work; let brain
centres work; work incessantly, but let not a ripple conquer the mind. Work as
if you were a stranger in this land, a sojourner; work incessantly, but do not
bind yourselves; bondage is terrible. This world is not our habitation, it is
only one of the many stages through which we are passing. Remember that great
saying of the Sânkhya, "The whole of nature is for the soul, not the
soul for nature." The very reason of nature's existence is for the
education of the soul; it has no other meaning; it is there because the soul
must have knowledge, and through knowledge free itself. If we remember this
always, we shall never be attached to nature; we shall know that nature is a
book in which we are to read, and that when we have gained the required
knowledge, the book is of no more value to us. Instead of that, however, we are
identifying ourselves with nature; we are thinking that the soul is for nature,
that the spirit is for the flesh, and, as the common saying has it, we think
that man "lives to eat" and not "eats to live". We are
continually making this mistake; we are regarding nature as ourselves and are
becoming attached to it; and as soon as this attachment comes, there is the
deep impression on the soul, which binds us down and makes us work not from
freedom but like slaves.
The whole gist of this teaching is that you should work like
a master and not as a slave; work incessantly, but
do not do slave's work. Do you not see how everybody works? Nobody can be
altogether at rest; ninety-nine per cent of mankind work like slaves, and the
result is misery; it is all selfish work. Work through freedom! Work through
love! The word "love" is very difficult to understand; love never
comes until there is freedom. There is no true love possible in the slave. If
you buy a slave and tie him down in chains and make him work for you, he will
work like a drudge, but there will be no love in him. So when we ourselves work
for the things of the world as slaves, there can be no love in us, and our work
is not true work. This is true of work done for relatives and friends, and is
true of work done for our own selves. Selfish work is slave's work; and here is
a test. Every act of love brings happiness; there is no act of love which does
not bring peace and blessedness as its reaction. Real existence, real
knowledge, and real love are eternally connected with one another, the three in
one: where one of them is, the others also must be; they are the three aspects
of the One without a second — the Existence - Knowledge - Bliss. When that
existence becomes relative, we see it as the world; that knowledge becomes in
its turn modified into the knowledge of the things of the world; and that bliss
forms the foundation of all true love known to the heart of man. Therefore true
love can never react so as to cause pain either to the lover or to the beloved.
Suppose a man loves a woman; he wishes to have her all to himself and feels
extremely jealous about her every movement; he wants her to sit near him, to
stand near him, and to eat and move at his bidding. He is a slave to her and
wishes to have her as his slave. That is not love; it is a kind of morbid
affection of the slave, insinuating itself as love. It cannot be love, because
it is painful; if she does not do what he wants, it brings him pain. With love
there is no painful reaction; love only brings a reaction of bliss; if it does
not, it is not love; it is mistaking something else for love. When you have
succeeded in loving your husband, your wife, your children, the whole world,
the universe, in such a manner that there is no reaction of pain or jealousy,
no selfish feeling, then you are in a fit state to be unattached.
Krishna says, "Look at Me, Arjuna! If I stop from work for
one moment, the whole universe will die. I have nothing to gain from work; I am
the one Lord, but why do I work? Because I love the world." God is
unattached because He loves; that real love makes us unattached. Wherever there
is attachment, the clinging to the things of the world, you must know that it
is all physical attraction between sets of particles of matter — something that
attracts two bodies nearer and nearer all the time and, if they cannot get near
enough, produces pain; but where there is real love, it
does not rest on physical attachment at all. Such lovers may be a thousand
miles away from one another, but their love will be all the same; it does not
die, and will never produce any painful reaction.
To attain this unattachment is almost a life-work, but as soon
as we have reached this point, we have attained the goal of love and become
free; the bondage of nature falls from us, and we see nature as she is; she
forges no more chains for us; we stand entirely free and take not the results
of work into consideration; who then cares for what the results may be?
Do you ask anything from your children in return for what you
have given them? It is your duty to work for them, and there the matter ends.
In whatever you do for a particular person, a city, or a state, assume the same
attitude towards it as you have towards your children — expect nothing in
return. If you can invariably take the position of a giver, in which everything
given by you is a free offering to the world, without any thought of return,
then will your work bring you no attachment. Attachment comes only where we
expect a return.
If working like slaves results in selfishness and attachment,
working as master of our own mind gives rise to the bliss of non-attachment. We
often talk of right and justice, but we find that in the world right and
justice are mere baby's talk. There are two things which guide the conduct of
men: might and mercy. The exercise of might is invariably the exercise of
selfishness. All men and women try to make the most of whatever power or
advantage they have. Mercy is heaven itself; to be good, we have all to be
merciful. Even justice and right should stand on mercy. All thought of
obtaining return for the work we do hinders our spiritual progress; nay, in the
end it brings misery. There is another way in which this idea of mercy and
selfless charity can be put into practice; that is, by looking upon work as
"worship" in case we believe in a Personal God. Here we give up
all the fruits our work unto the Lord, and worshipping Him thus, we have no
right to expect anything from mankind for the work we do. The Lord Himself
works incessantly and is ever without attachment. Just as water cannot wet the
lotus leaf, so work cannot bind the unselfish man by giving rise to attachment
to results. The selfless and unattached man may live in the very heart of a
crowded and sinful city; he will not be touched by sin.
This idea of complete self-sacrifice is illustrated in the
following story: After the battle of Kurukshetra the five Pândava brothers
performed a great sacrifice and made very large gifts to the poor. All people
expressed amazement at the greatness and richness of the sacrifice, and said
that such a sacrifice the world had never seen before. But, after the ceremony,
there came a little mongoose, half of whose body was golden, and the other half
brown; and he began to roll on the floor of the sacrificial hall. He said to
those around, "You are all liars; this is no sacrifice."
"What!" they exclaimed, "you say this is no sacrifice; do you
not know how money and jewels were poured out to the poor and every one became
rich and happy? This was the most wonderful sacrifice any man ever performed."
But the mongoose said, "There was once a little village, and in it there
dwelt a poor Brahmin with his wife, his son, and his son's wife. They were very
poor and lived on small gifts made to them for preaching and teaching. There
came in that land a three years' famine, and the poor Brahmin suffered more
than ever. At last when the family had starved for days, the father brought
home one morning a little barley flour, which he had been fortunate enough to
obtain, and he divided it into four parts, one for each member of the family.
They prepared it for their meal, and just as they were about to eat, there was
a knock at the door. The father opened it, and there stood a guest. Now
in India a guest is a sacred person; he is as a god for the time being,
and must be treated as such. So the poor Brahmin said, 'Come in, sir; you are
welcome,' He set before the guest his own portion of the food, which the guest
quickly ate and said, 'Oh, sir, you have killed me; I have been starving for
ten days, and this little bit has but increased my hunger.' Then the wife said
to her husband, 'Give him my share,' but the husband said, 'Not so.' The wife
however insisted, saying, 'Here is a poor man, and it is our duty as
householders to see that he is fed, and it is my duty as a wife to give him my
portion, seeing that you have no more to offer him.' Then she gave her share to
the guest, which he ate, and said he was still burning with hunger. So the son
said, 'Take my portion also; it is the duty of a son to help his father to
fulfil his obligations.' The guest ate that, but remained still unsatisfied; so
the son's wife gave him her portion also. That was sufficient, and the guest
departed, blessing them. That night those four people died of starvation. A few
granules of that flour had fallen on the floor; and when I rolled my body on
them, half of it became golden, as you see. Since then I have been travelling
all over the world, hoping to find another sacrifice like that, but nowhere
have I found one; nowhere else has the other half of my body been turned into
gold. That is why I say this is no sacrifice."
This idea of charity is going out of India; great men are
becoming fewer and fewer. When I was first learning English, I read an English
story book in which there was a story about a dutiful boy who had gone out to
work and had given some of his money to his old mother, and this was praised in
three or four pages. What was that? No Hindu boy can ever understand the moral
of that story. Now I understand it when I hear the Western idea — every man for
himself. And some men take everything for themselves, and fathers and mothers
and wives and children go to the wall. That should never and nowhere be
the ideal of the householder.
Now you see what Karma-Yoga means; even at the point of death to
help any one, without asking questions. Be cheated millions of times and never
ask a question, and never think of what you are doing. Never vaunt of
your gifts to the poor or expect their gratitude, but rather be grateful to
them for giving you the occasion of practicing charity to them. Thus it is
plain that to be an ideal householder is a much more difficult task than to be
an ideal Sannyasin; the true life of work is indeed as hard as, if not harder
than, the equally true life of renunciation.
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